After first 3 years of development, teenage is considered to be most volatile part of life. While the former years are spent in providing a physical build-up for the child, the teenage years prepare both mind and body to fight upcoming challenges. Unfortunately, this is exactly the age where Indian teens are going through a behavioural crisis.
16 year old boy kills his mother
Recently, a 16 year old boy killed his mother for not letting him play online games. According to a report by Indian Express, mother and son had an argument in the evening. She thought that her kid had stole the money. The boy was already frustrated with her as she constantly warned him for playing mobile games.
At around 3 AM in the morning, boy took out his father’s licensee pistol and shot her. He hid her body in a room and maintained silence. The boy also threatened his younger sister and ordered her to not tell anyone. For 3 days, he used room freshener to hid the smell. When it became impossible to hid the crime, he went to police and told them that electrician had killed his mother. But, Police found inconsistencies in his statement and when enquired, the boy spit the truth.
The murder once agian shocked the nation. People are unable to understand the actual reason behind it. The kid had everything. An earning father, mother’s love, a small sister and grandparents to care for. Surely, mobile games is not the only reason. It may be an immediate reason, but there is something else going under the carpet. In this case, the boy used his aggression to kill his mom. In other instances, kids are inflicting self-harm with their aggressions. Suicide rates among teens is rampant as well. Additionally, those whose anger is not upto that extremity end up misbehaving with society members.
Technology is to blame
If you scratch the surface to find out the reason, one common theme would come up and that is the mobile and its addiction. But, blaming it squarely on them is skirting our own responsibility. Yes, technology is the big reason behind it. It is designed in such a way that it gives you instant dopamine resulting in constant inflow of positive hormones. That positive hormone forces you to crave more. In turn, the craving turns into addiction and kids lose the ability to toil more for the hormone. After all, if you are getting it by virtually kiling few people in PUBG while sitting on a couch, why would you run for 5 km?. Its normal and the fact that you are reading it hooked up on a screen is clear evidence of it.
Additionally, the online space is filled with full disdain for modern day and age. The liberal bias of tech-giants has resulted in flurry of anti-society (f*** society), anti-family, anti-civilisation values being propelled through Google cables. The Internet is filled with hopeless nihilists who do not have any moral system other than incessant consumption. They elaborate to kids that they are happiest when they are consuming expensive products. As a result, kids get motivated to buy more as they think it will make them happier. This thirst sends them into the world of crime.
The Boy Crisis
Additionally, if you look at the data, you will find most of the juvenile criminals are boys. Evidence are crystal clear that most of the developing and developed world are going through a boy crisis. While, we are celebrating Girls’ podium positions, we are forgetting that our boys are constantly being left behind. In developed world, they are failing on almost every matrix which make up for a successful career. The same is being replicated in India as well, especially at developed locations like metro cities of Delhi, Mumbai among others.
Parents need to be aware
While, all these are external reasons, and account for major reasons behind the behavioural crisis, a part of the blame also goes to parents and other senior members of the society. If you watch modern day parents closely, you will find that they are scared of their children rather than other way around. Modern day kids just never get punted. Fewer child policy is one of the biggest reasons behind it. Normally, parents have only 1 or 2 kids. They are too scared to offend them and hence end up unintentionally promoting their misdeeds. Surely, few kids are necessity, but they should be disciplined and the line should be clear.
But, how will these parents control their kids when they themselves are not the role model they would like their child to follow. These parents are themselves hooked up on their mobile phones. So, when these kids come into the world, they start to get trained around the age of 1 itself. It is a common sight in modern day families where parents are feeding the child and the kid is watching something on the mobile held up by one of the parents. This not only stops child’s growth but also makes his less worthy of socialisation during the primitive years of 3 to 5. 3 to 5 years of age is the time when humans are at the top of their aggression and are desperately in the need of socialisation.
Social constructionists have killed it
Additionally, the boy crisis also has its roots in parents and society blindly following internet. Internet is bombarded with feminists’ quotes blaming boys for being boys. Male and female are born different and express their feelings in radically different ways. But, we live in a female correct society. Just because a boy does not cry like a girls, he does not express his emotions, he is tough and difficult to negotiate, the kid is termed as toxic masculine. The social construction view of anti-scientific gender ideology has now permerated our society. According to this, both boys and girls are equal in every aspect, in spite of clear cut morphological and psychological differences between them.
There is a desperate attempt to suppress boys’ natural aggression rather than directing them for a better purpose. The attempt has massively failed in western world. The initiatives to corner men by curbing their aggression have resulted in fascists’ pushback. Unfortunately, no one is here to educate parents about it. They are constantly being told that boys are aggressive because they are boys and there is a need for more cebtralised pressure. The fact of the matter is society is grappling with less masculinity which is being manifested in defensive aggression.
Similarly, girls are being pushed to act more like aggressive boys. The Lucknow incident in which a girls was constantly beating a cab driver is prime example of that. Various other videos later also came into limelight exposing the toxicity of feminism. All efforts were directed towards changing law, rather than changing behavioural analysis. The social constructionists are not letting boys be boys and girls be girls, creating an unhappy and ultra-aggresive teenagers in the end.
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